Hi everyone! My significant other is searching for his birth mother. We feel as though his adopted mother is being very secretive about many things when it comes to this touchy issue. We know he was born at 7:27 p.m in Goshen, NY on May 15th,1990. Now at 23 years old he is ready to find her. This was a closed adoption, and given the circumstance his mother literally refuses to give any information on adoption services or hospital location. We arent even sure what his ethnicity/race is because she will not give that information either. We have 2 children, ages 2 & 3 and for the sake of them we are foaming at the mouth for any if all information we can compile for a P.I. My significant other has medium skin with dark hair and medium size brown eyes. His adopted mother is also a genealogist which raises an even bigger question as to what she really knows about him. At this point we are desperate and are willing to try anything. If anyone can point me in the direction as where to start or what to do, please don't hesitate to reply. Anything or any ideas at all would be wonderful and very much appreciated as well as helpful. The only information his adopted mother will give us is that his bio-mother was addicted to crack. What she is doing is not only unfair to him, but unfair to my children. Thank you all for your time and support.
**We are also looking for any siblings/relatives that may be associated with him.