This site changed my life a couple years ago. I listed a "searching for" my father message and his wife's assistant read it and soon connected us. It's been wonderful, especially to have siblings I didn't know about in my life now. (My mother cut him off from me when I was 4) I am trying to find his now ex-wife Deb Shena. She is Hawaii or New Mexico. Please contact me if you know her where abouts.