Thank You Carolyn, Her married name was Steutterman…I haven’t been able to find the marriage cert. I'm pretty sure she was married in New York. I’m not sure if she came to NY on her own or with her parents…I haven’t been able to find that either, but it was somewhere around 1900 according to censuses.
I got this information off her death certificate. She died February 5, 1944 in Queens NY - Catherine Steadman aka Catherine Steutterman. (The family changed Steutterman to Steadman)