first thank you everyone for all the info you have given me so far in my search.
i was entering the new info on my sheets and realized i don't have a name for Henry Oakley's Mother. on his marriage certificate it gives his Fathers name as Thomas and Henry and Martha had a son they also named Thomas, but no mention of Henry's Mother. i did ask on the England site as that is where Henry was born, but then they came to Canada, but i don't have a date for that. thought maybe she also died in Ontario, but i don't know if Thomas and his wife came to Canada or not. its confusing when there are lot of family members with same name, i have that issue with my Dad's side which is Bill or William Romanick.
hope someone can help me out. thanks again fo all your help Linda