I have to thank you here as do not see an e-mail address. Thank you for writing. I would guess not your family so another thank you for posting. John Worden was 25, Alfretta Spicer was 19 when they were married Aug 13, 1881 so the Sarah Worden age 24 in 1881 census was probably John's sister. The 1881 census was "done" April 4th so he was still single.