I know now that there must be two different Laurie/Louie Piispanens, because my Lauri never married after his 2nd wife Karoline Kinnunen died in Finland.He came to US alone on the SS California(n), and wound up in Quincy MA where he remained until his death. His children joined him(except for Verna(Werna) who stayed in Finland(she was from his first marriage to Karoline's cousin Eva.
Anyway I don't have concrete proof of this, but to many people including some I just met that were my grandmothers cousins children, have the same inf I do about Lauri. They don't know who this other person is, and neither do I.
Thank you anyone that sees this, and can help confirm this by some actual record, we'd be greatful for.