Yes, I believe we are talking about the same family. I just had to call my grandmother, Joan, to find out who you were. (Joan is Joe's (who I believe is your father) youngest sister). I am the youngest daugher of Maureen Trainer, Joan and Tom's eldest.
Originally, I started looking on this forum as I wanted to know if Hazel and Herbert had any other siblings that came over to the US after them. I'd also like to find out if we still have family in Lebanon. So far, you and Mark Freme are the only 2 I've heard from.
Joan says that you may know more info about our family than even she knows, so I would love to hear what you do know.