i couldnt find a dinnah i saw a pic of Elva Beardsley Tingley...pretty lady I have been on ancestry.com since feb 2010. i knew my dad's mom had a father..lol someone helped me find her birth certificate. his name is on it. but her dad and mom didnt marry. Gramma Nellie was the sweetest old lady. my maternal gramma was a grouch, she's the one related to the van kirks and pirates...lol figures i have a couple trees on ancestry "Barton and Families Maternal Side" "Barton And Families Paternal Side" I'm in process of trying to straighten them up. My name is Melanie Kay but I go by Kay.I am 57 yrs old. I just recently went to Philo Ohio and visited a 2nd cousin of mine(Mom's 1st cousin) that i never knew existed and theres still one i never met in Zanesville Ohio!the are in their 80's I have talked to my dad's 2nd cousin. he is 83 i think in Lima Ohio. He was a superintendent of schools. Very nice to talk with him, he has old pics of 2 men, might be my grandfatherand his brother OR my grt grt grandfather!. I dont have many pics but trying to get some copies off of family members,who are slow in reponse. you have my email address. Are you in Michigan?