My research name is Willingham, I know very little about the Meadows family. The Willingham/Meadows marriage that I referred to in my query was Mary (nee' Milner) Willingham married February 23, 1846 in Harris Co., GA to Austin Meadows.[Harris Co., GA marriage records].
1850 census Harris Co., GA Waverly Hall Dist. [scan 2 of 4] #144 Absalem A. (Austin?) Meadows 25 GA Overseer , Mary 32 GA b. 1818 (Mary Ann Milner m1. Willingham m2 Meadows) , Nancy W. 11 GA b. 1839 (Nancy Willingham, dau of Marion Willingham) , James 5 GA b. 1845 , Mary J. 2 GA
I found the Austin Meadows m. Mary Willingham family 1860 in Tallapoosa Co., GA and evidently Nancy Willingham has married by then.
1860 Beat 5 Tallapoosa Co., Al PO Desoto [1850 census says all born GA] #310 A. A. Meadows 35 AL , Mary 42 AL , James M. 14 AL , Bollng W. 7 GA , Toby 4 m GA , Elizabeth 1/12 AL George W. C. Eews? 12 m GA