Hi Virginia, A Virginia R. Payne Born=8 April 1912 Last Residence=Oceanside, San Diego Co., CA Died=28 Jan 2003 Last Benefit Mailed to=Oceanside, San Diego Co., CA Her soc. sec. # was assigned in New York before 1951. Source=Social Security Death Index.
You can request a copy of her obituary from San Diego County Library, firstname.lastname@example.org. Be sure to tell them she died in Oceanside.
I didn't find Julia but you didn't say where you thought she died.
I'm sure Janet is still alive since she was born about 1940.Successful Searching!