Thank you so much for being willing to help me.First of all her Boyfriend was the informant so he may have filled out information inaccurately. He didn't know her that Long. His name was/is Bill (William) Kachmere.
The Hospital was Grosmont Hospital, you are right it is in La Mesa, San Diego County, CA.
Mother's name at Birth was Gloria Jean Stone.Parents names were/are Max E. Stone and Laura B??? Bybee.
Mother was born July 24, 1941 in the Galesburg Cottage Hospital, Galesburg, Knox, Illinois. (It could be East Galesburg).
At the time of Mother's Death her name was Gloria J. (Jean) Smith.She kept her last married name either for the last child she gave birth to or to keep from the hassle of changing all her information, SSN#, Driver's License etc.
Mother's SSN# is 551-56-5176.
I know she died at Grossmont Hospital because I was there holding her hand at the moment of Death.
The nurses, Doctor were slow in writing down her death information.She died on May 28, 1992, time was 3:16 p.m.I remember this because Mother was a christian and she always quoted John 3:16 and that is why I was shocked at the time of Death being the same as the Bible scripture she favored.
I think if I remember correctly that I was upset that the day and exact time of Death may have been written down incorrectly by the Doctor.I realize that Death was nothing to a doctor that sees Death on a regular basis, but this was my Mother and she only dies once and it was in my presence.I know that he had put time later than 3:16 p.m. but still it was in the same hour.The day may have been written May 27th or 29th 1992.The Month and year are correct.I know it was actually the 28th, Since this Day is the Day she died and I would remember that the rest of my Life.Doctors get over extended or too busy sometimes and make mistakes.
They seemed more interested in getting her eyes donated then getting her information.But then again I was mourning her loss, our loss, and more involved in her life than that of Donation at that time. They rushed us out of her room to write eye donation/ funeral/cremation instead of giving me a minute alone with my Mother.
Sorry if I sound bitter but death is bitter sweet and nothing can console a broken heart at that moment.I, out of Mother's three children took her Death the hardest.My sisters were not attached to her as I was or it didn't affect/effect them in the same way.All mourn differently.It took me at least ten years to be able to talk about her without falling apart.Her Death Literally almost took my life. I was in and out of Hospital. Major Depression brought on by her Death caused a chemical Imbalance in my Brain. now under control by medication.this Imbalance can cause an individual to give up the will to live.If not for my belief in Christ, even how dangerous a person can be to themselves, Christ kept me from harm, even though the Depression tried every opportunity to end my life.
God knew I had things to do, Little did I know what that would be, I now know it was for me to see my children grown and to help raise our 4 Grandchildren, two girls and two boys ages 3 yrs old., 10 months old, and two cousins age each7 months old.The last two babies are 10 days apart.These babies are cousins not siblings, All my kids have one child, One daughter has two.
One grandchild was born in Feb month of showing Love. The other three were born in the Month of May, Mother's Day/Mother's Love. The lesson I learned from my Mother's Death was that God comes first! Honor your Mother and Father (Even when some don't deserve it, some are not good Parents and could be cruel) and Love One Another,Family comes first before anything life has come our way.Of anything in Life the Greatest gift of all is Love.
Now I will get off my Soap box, and thank you for all the time that you have taken out of your days to help me, a stranger.Thank you!