I am Sorry but that Boyfriend will be of no help,He has been a problem, since her death he has been mean.He kept her ashes from me forover 14 years, finally after a death scare I guess he realized no one would be knowing where to find her ashes so he finally sent the ashes to Mother's Step sister in Illinois who in turn sent them to me.She doesn't know him except through Christmas card so she wouldn't be able to help either.
Mother's Parents were:Father-Max E Stone, Mother: Laura B Bybee-This is her Mother's Maiden name.
El Cajon, San Diego County, CA.is where Mother Lived last.They had been on a Cruise when Mother fell 3 times and then ship stopped to get her off and she was taken to Grosmont Hospital.
The arraingement was done for the Donation of her eyes at the Hospital or by the Hospital.The Eye place sounded like a New Age place to me but could be wrong.The Hospital-Grossmont should still have records somewhere on all that was done and her death.
Mother's SSN will be under Gloria J Smith born July 24. 1941.