Hi Dale, I found a Janet Balser on the Peter Dean Plamondon Family Tree on Ancestry, trees.ancestry.com/tree/11324782/person/225365852 . However that family tree doesn't contain much information and no husbands.
A Janet L. Balser b. abt. 1941 married newell C. Macdonald, age=22, on 12 Nov 1960, San Mateo Co. Registrar #=1690. State File #=94326. Source=California Marriage Index 1960-1985.
A Janet L. Balser and Roger L. Anderson were divorced April 1970 in San Mateo Co. Source: California Divorce Index 1966-1984.
A Janet L. Balser, b. abt. 1941 married Robert H. Litoff, 28, on 25 Nov 1970, San Mateo Co. Registrar=3171. State File #=151875. Source=California Marriage Index 1960-1985.
A Janet Louise Litoff of California married Gilbert Grijalva Aquilar of California on 4 Jan 1975, Douglas Co., Nevada. Officient Type=Civil celebrant Recorded Date=0 0 19 0 recorded County=Douglas. Source=Nevada Marriage Index 1956-2005.
A Janet Aguilar b. 9 July 1942, Last Residence=Shafter, Kern Co., CA Died=18 Jan 2004. Her soc. sec. # was assigned in California in 1960. Source=Social Security Death Index.
I'd contact the Kern County Genealogical Society, rootsweb.ancestry.com/~cakcgs/Look-ups.htm for a copy of her obituary. Hopefully the obituary will tell you whether this is your Janet or not.
If you need more information, obtain copies of her parents' obituaries. Hopefully she'll be mentioned in them with her full name and where she was living when they died.
You can also contact each county and get copies of each marriage license which will hopefully contain more information. Successful Searching!