I am at a stumbling block on these two individuals. Census records show Henry N Staples as being born abt 1822 Taunton / Seekonk Massachusetts. Married to Phila B Howland (born abt 1817 Newport, Rhode Island). Marriage records show marriage in Thompson, Connecticut 27 Jun 1841 (records from Barbour Collection).
I cannot find record of the BIRTH of either individual nor can I find any record of parent names.
Phila's full name shown in death records "Philadelphia B Howland Staples".