Hi. I'm not related to this family.An application for his gravemarker listed his wife as Mrs. Lillian Ross:
U.S., Headstone Applications for Military Veterans, 1925-1963 about Raymond H Ross Name: Raymond H Ross Birth Date: 6 Jun 1899 (5/30/1899 - the 5/30 is crossed out and 6/6 is written in red pencil) Death Date: 28 Dec 1959 Enlistment Date: 6/6/1918 Discharge Date: 8/1/1919 Branch of Service: U.S. Army Corp. Motor Truck Co #447 Cemetery: Kohlerlawn Cemetery Cemetery Location: Nampa, Idaho Applicant: Mrs. Lillian Ross, wife Dated: 12/31/1959
Raymond is living in Nampa, ID as early as 1953:
U.S. City Directories, 1821-1989 (Beta) about Raymond H Ross Name: Raymond H Ross Gender: M (Male) Residence Year: 1953 Street Address: 224 20th Av 8 Residence Place: Nampa, Idaho Occupation: Emp Spouse: Lillian M Ross Publication Title: Nampa, Idaho, City Directory, 1953 --Raymond H Ross (Lilliam M) emp Birdseye Div h224 20th av S
Here is Raymond & Lillian living in ID in 1940: https://familysearch.org/pal:/MM9.1.1/VY4J-ZRY
According to that census, they had a son, Glen, born 1935 in CA. This might be a birth record for him:
California Birth Index, 1905-1995 about Glen Arlen Ross Name: Glen Arlen Ross Birth Date: 20 Aug 1934 Gender: Male Mother's Maiden Name: Richardson Birth County: Los Angeles
There was also a stepdaughter, Veronne Agenbroad, b. 1924 ID, dau of Dan M. Agenbroad & Lillian M. Richardson.Here is a marriage for these parents:
Dan M Agenbroad, "Idaho, County Marriages, 1864-1950"
So, Raymond's 2nd wife's name was most likely Lillian M. Richardson.
This might be Raymond in 1900, living in Denver with his parents Homer, b. 1876 Illinois & Glennie/Jessie, b. 1878 Nebraska: https://familysearch.org/pal:/MM9.1.1/MQM9-XSX
And then in 1910 living in Fremont, ID with his parents: https://familysearch.org/pal:/MM9.1.1/MDCG-ZSN
A WWI draft card lists Homer's full name as Homer Chester Ross, b. 21 Jul 1875 - wife Jessie Ross https://familysearch.org/pal:/MM9.1.1/K8QZ-F3X
Raymond had a brother named Radford Ross, b. 16 Jun 1897 Denver, according to his WWI draft card filled out in St-Anthony, ID: https://familysearch.org/pal:/MM9.1.1/K8QZ-X1B
Their parents Homer & Jessie were still living in ID as late as 1940: https://familysearch.org/pal:/MM9.1.1/VY4J-3BM
Here is this family in 1910:
1910 United States Federal Census about Raymond Ross Name: Raymond Ross Age in 1910: 9 Birth Year: 1901 Birthplace: Colorado Home in 1910: St Anthony Ward 3, Fremont, Idaho Race: White Gender: Male Relation to Head of House: Son Marital Status: Single Father's Name: Horace S Ross Father's Birthplace: Illinois Mother's Name: J Glena Ross Mother's Birthplace: Nebraska Household Members: Name Age Homer C Ross 34b. 1876 Ill, par b. Ill; Miller, Flour J Glenn Ross 32 -wife- b. 1878 Nebraska, fath b. Ill, moth b. Iowa; married 12 years; 2 children Radford Ross 11 -son- b. 1899 CO Raymond Ross 9-son- b. 1901 CO
And in in 1920:
1920 United States Federal Census about Raymond Ross Name: Raymond Ross Age: 20 Birth Year: abt 1900 Birthplace: Colorado Home in 1920: St Anthony, Fremont, Idaho Race: White Gender: Male Relation to Head of House: Son Marital Status: Single Father's Name: Homer C Ross Father's Birthplace: Illinois Mother's Name: Jessie G Ross Mother's Birthplace: Nebraska Able to Read: Yes Able to Write: Yes Household Members: Name Age Homer C Ross 44b. 1876 Illinois, par b. Ill; Miller, Flour Mill Jessie G Ross 42 -wife- b. 1878 Nebraska, fath b. Ill, mothe b. Iowa; Saleslady Radford Ross 22 -son- b. 1898 CO Raymond Ross 20 -son- b. 1900 CO; Miller's Helper, Flour Mill
By 1930, Raymond was a widower, perhaps to 1st wife Docia?
1930 United States Federal Census about Raymond H Ross Name: Raymond H Ross [Raymond M Ross] Gender: Male Birth Year: abt 1900 Birthplace: Colorado Race: White Home in 1930: North Platteville, Weld, Colorado View Map Marital Status: Widowed Relation to Head of House: Nephew Father's Birthplace: Illinois Mother's Birthplace: Nebraska Household Members: Name Age Elmer G Mcdermed 48b. 1882 Nebraska, fath b. Ill, moth b. Iowa; Farmer Lester Mcdermed76 -father- b. 1854 Ill, fath b. KY, moth b. Ireland? Ida V Mcdermed 72 -mother- b. 1858 Iowa, par b. Penn Raymond H Ross30 -nephew-widower- b. 1900 CO
I think it's safe to assume that Raymond's mother was Jessie Glenn(ie) McDermed.Hope this helps. Annie