Hi Bill, I'm wondering where you got the birth dates for Abijah and Eliza. The A.J. Fraley born 1822 in the 1860 census of Hancock County matches the Abijah Fraley, age 28 with Eliza age 27 and children William W, 7, Nancy E age 5, Helen F age 2, Jefferson C age 1 and Delila Armstrong age 51 living in Barren County, KY in the 1850 census. Cannot find any of them in 1870 census, but in 1880 there is Abiga Fraley age 55 born TN with Sarah, Virginia, and James Fraley, ages 26, 24, and 22 living in Saline County, MO.
Missouri marriages show Saline County, MO marriages: Helen Fraley to James D. Hill Dec 31, 1868 Sarah Fraley to David Harter 5 March 1882 Virginia Fraley to Herbert Clark Feb 25, 1872