It's always good to hear from cousins.I believe Bobby Conley to be from Elijah's (John and Sarah's third son) line. We believe Henry to be a brother or cousin to John, and John's father's name was John as well.To my knowledge nothing has ever been proven as to John, Henry, and Thomas Connelly's real father. But all are well known to have traveled from Penn., Va., and N.C.. It is also my belief that Sarah was what they called his "country wife". Her gravestone states "Sarah Connelly 'consort' of John Connelly". Not 'wife' as should be if she were his one and only. All admit there is a great mystery surrounding John and Sarah. All accepted documentation on them starts in Wilkes Co., N.C. with a full grown family. I am beginning to believe he was The John Connelly the "Loyalist" and that is the reason for their history's secrecy. I have a lot of info on John the Loyalist and it is suspecious.