Have found cemetery and the info on the stone which would have been done by the son. Since he died seven to eight years later himself. He also took a trip to Germany before he died. coming back on French port. Sure would like to find more information on where he went.sorry but still don't believe it was 1855 or around there for her. unless I am barking up the wrong tree. But there are too many clues to ignore here.
the first wife came around then, Iwonder what church? and in Montana as miners was it important.