After looking on Ancestry.com again, I remember why I was so confused. The 1880 Census has John A. Hale being born in Ark. and his children as Elizabeth, Margret, George W., Malinda, & Millie. The 1900 Census has him being born in Tenn. & his children as Thomas D., Rettie A., James P., Martha J., Johnnie, Joseph, & Barnie F. Are these two different John A. Hales? I've seen Family Trees and there are too many inconsistentcies for me to know which one to trust. I did find the headstones that you spoke about. Thank you SO MUCH!! James Pecos Hale was my husband's great-grandfather. Ollie Tillman Hale (Jame's son) was my husband's grandfather.