Put in Harrington - exact put in r - for first name click manhattan button
should give you about 20 listings for r harrington's - he's about 2/3 of the way down.
No one is getting e-mail notifications - haven't for a long time.I try to keep checking back on the people I'm helping.
I think I found Robert's 2nd wife, and also found where his mother and sister Ellen are buried.
findagrave Riverside Cem. Toms River, Ocean Co. NJ Hanington, Julia Anne b. unk. d. 2/15/1892 Hanington, Ellen b. unk. d. 9/26/1899 - d/o Julia Anne
Plugged Robert into fultonhistory.com and got some interesting stuff.
NY Herald Sept 2, 1893 At Lake George: Wedding at Sanford's Islands - Mr. Robert W. Hanington of Toms River NJ and Miss Katharine Smith of Baltimore, MD were married recently by Elder Rose of the M. E. Church.F. G. Gottlieb was the best man and Jennie Sanford was the bridesmaid.
1888-1890 NY Dramatic Mirror - no more specific date Glens Falls Opera House - Robert W. Hanington of NY is retouching the scenery in the opera house.
1895 ocean NJ census shows Robt W. Hanington 20-60 Kate Hanington 20-60
1900 Toms River village, Dover, Ocean, NJ Hannington, Katherine, 37 MD GER MD -b. June 1862 md. 7 yrs mother of 0, music teacher (also has 3 boarders)
Also saw a reference that Pauline's father, Felix, was a leading figure in the chocolate industry in NY City.