HelloLara I have not looked for your obit but I did look your info up in the Defiance County Genealogy Society Tombstone Inscription Book and it says that Martha A. Hand 1871 - 1942 is buried in Lost Creek Cemetery and so is A.P. 1868-1959 there are other people buried with him. A.P. and Martha are not buried beside each other. Hope this helps. You might check out the Defiance Genealogy Society's website.