Oscar was the s/o Nehemiah and Eliza AMES. Nehemiah was about 75 when Oscar was born; Eliza was 30! They lived in Farmer Village, Defiance Co. OH.
The Ohioana Room at the Defiance Public Library, http://www.defiance.lib.oh.us/genealogy.asphttp://www.defiance.lib.oh.us/genealogy.asp has an obit index and some cemetery information. They should be able to help you.