I have in my family line a Jacob G Wilden who married to a Anna Binder/Bender on Nov 7, 1843 in Lucas County, Ohio. Anna fathers name was Jacob Binder/Bender. Could this be your Ann??
Jacob and Anna lived in Fulton County, Ohio. He laid out the town of Burlington in Fulton County, Ohio. He opened the 1st merchandise store in the town. Jacob's son Abraham moved to Dekalb County, Indiana. I would like to exchange information with you since I really feel we have a connection. Hope to hear from you.