Jim - if you give me your email address. I can send you a map directions. To get from Tishomingo,Oklahoma to Condon Grove Cemetery in Milburn Oklahoma. I have been there several times, I also have relatives buried there as well. But I live in Norman,Okla. Did your white's have a Bertha White born about 1885.children Richard & Mrytle White. And Bertha married a man name James Murphy.