Thank you so much Annette, as of yesterday the cemetery is sending me the information they have.The probate court is an excellent suggstion now that we know she survived her hubby by 8 or more years. Henriette Jane (WOOD) JARVIS lived in Claremore when buried in 1928.
With my WEBTV I haven't learned, if indeed it is possible, to search census records so it is my blessing that good folks like yourself help.
The age is interesting, -- 14 years short of her true age, born 1848 plus 58 is 1906, not 1920, but I understand some of the census problems.In 1920 she had but two brothers still living of 11 siblings, one in Carthage and other in Dallas (maybe back in WV by then?).
Thank you again, this provides us a vital link about her, but who was William L. JARVIS