I understand what you are saying however, it will take some digging to find out. Contact the Sec. of State and see if they have this cemetery registered with them.I live in the State of GA and this is where our cemeteries are registered.Someone has to own the proper4ty if it is kept up.Write to Joyce and see if she knows who owns the cemetery.Just persistant-kieep writing-build on top of what you learn from one to the other. I think you said you have obits-does any of them tell you who was in charge of the services? Are any of them still in business?It just takes digging and being persistant.I have been at this for abt 30 years and you will find out.Let me know.If the obits tell yo0u they are interred there just pick a site and say this is them.That is what we had to do with my g g grandfather who fought in the Rev. war.