Hi Polly, You didn't include any dates, or approximate dates, in your query for any of your family.I went looking, trying to determine in what time frame they belonged.Dates are important, especially with common surnames like Elliott, as availability and info inlcuded in records vary over time.
Are the following from SSDI yours?
Jennie Fleming, b 2 Apr 1902; d Sep 1980; last residence Healdton, Carter Co, OK; SS card issued in OK.
Alexander Fleming, b 9 Sep 1888; d Apr 1968; last residence Oklahoma City, Oklahoma Co, OK; SS card issued in OK.
You say Alexander died before you were born, but we don't know when you were born.(^_^)
Now, thatname of Trolinger might be a little easier to follow.Let us know time frames, even approximate dates will help.