Found the following census information that looks to be this family:
1900 Kansas Morris County, Highland, page 171 Patterson, Samuel June 1825 OH Ireland Ireland Patterson, Rebecca Jane Sept 1836 OH NJ NY Patterson, George W. Aug 1866 KS OH OH Patterson, Eva M. Nov 1875 KS IN IN Patterson, Grace H. Sept 1892 KS KS KS Patterson, Ethel J. Feb 1895 KS KS KS Patterson Fredrick L. Nov 1896 KS KS KS
1910 Oklahoma, Woodward County, Liberty Township page 131b Patterson, Geroge W. 42 married 18 yrs. KS OH OH Patterson Eva M. 34 md.18 yrs. 6 child., 4 living; KS OH IN Patterson, Freddie L.13KSKSKS Patterson, Frank W. 7OKKSKS Patterson, Earl E. 5OKKSKS
1930 Illinois Kane County, Batavia page 29 Patterson, Frank 27md. at age 18;OKKSKS Patterson, Ethel (wife) 27 KSKS KS Patterson, Lucille (daughter) 6KSOKKS Patterson, Earl (brother) 25, married at age 24, KSKSKS (no wife listed for Earl, but he is not listed as widowed)
Also found White City Cemetery listings from Morris Co KS: Patterson, George W. 1867-1913 Patterson, Eva L. 1875-1953 (THROOP, wife of Geo.) Patterson, Fred S. 1896-1918 (29 co., 164 Div, 3rd Reg.GW/EM) Patterson, Josie 1871-1940 Patterson, Jacob A. 1857-1935 Patterson, Samuel 20 Jun 1825 - 2 Aug 1911 Patterson, Rebecca J. 25 Sep 1836 - 30 Nov 1902
I do not have access to TX death records prior to 1956from home, but will make a note and next time I go to the Dallas Library will try to look up a death certificate for you. Do you live in TX?