I see there are error in the family listing for Henry and Nettie such as Lonnie and Shauver are the same person.
They may have been in Arkansas but were not caught on the 1880 or 1900 census records.
1900 Wise Co., TX Census Alvord Pct p76 Rhoads Jim head w m Sep[t 1879 20 m KY KY TX " Lizzie wife w f dec 1882 17 m MS MS MS 2 doors down Willie head w m Jan 1874 26 KY KY KY " Ennis wife w f Oct 1869 30 AL AL AL Next Door Rhoads James A head w m Feb 1845 57 m21 TN TN VA farmer *** Your G-Grandfather " Amanda wife w f Nov 1852 47 m21 8kids 5living KY KY KY " Daisy dau w f Dec 1881 18 KY " Agate dau w f Jun 1883 16 TX " Robert ? son w m Nov 1885 14 TX " Maud dau w f Nov 1888 11 TX " Minnie dau w f Sep 1893 6 TX
1900 Wise Co., TX Census Alvord Pct p75 Rhoads Henry S head w m Jul 1877 22 m2yrs KY KY KY farmer " Nettie wife w f Dec 1876 23 m2yrs 2kids 2living KY TN KY " Jewell dau w f Oct 1898 1 TX " Clifford son w m Mar 1900 2/12 TX
1900 Wise Co., TX Census 5-PCT p65 Rhoads A E head w m Feb 1820 80 m13 TN NC TN*** Your GG-Grandfather " Elizebeth wife w f Aug 1826 73 m13 7kids 4living GA NC NC
1880 U.S.Census Place District 1, Scottsville, Allen, Kentucky Page 160D Name Relation Sex Race Age Marr Birthplaces[Name,Dad,Mom] Occupation James A. RHOADES Self Male W 37 M [TN TN VA] Mail Carrier Amanda J. RHOADES Wife Female W 27 M [KY KY KY] Keeping House Louisa F. RHOADES Dau Female W 13 S [KY TN VA] Mary A. RHOADES Dau Female W 10 S [KY TN VA] Bishop. P. RHOADES Son Male W 6 S [KY TN VA] Henry. S. RHOADES Son Male W 4 S [KY TN VA] James S. RHOADES Son Male W 9M S [KY TN VA]
The people you mentioned that are in Alvado cemetery are connected to your family is someway or another.Click the hot-links on the names on the page to find them.
I am sending via email some picks I found in the Texas Records.