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OBITUARY The Daily Press newspaper in Ashland, Ashland County, Wisconsin, USA Monday, 14 December 2009 ***** Ralph H. “Bud” Wesling, age 87, of Ashland, passed away on Thursday, Dec.10, 2009, at his residence. He was born Nov.18, 1922, in Benoit [Wisconsin], the son of Oscar and Ellen (Wilder) Wesling. Bud graduated from Drummond High School [in Wisconsin] in 1941. He worked on the family farm in the Benoit area before moving to Milwaukee [Wisconsin].
He married Alice Jensen on July 22, 1957.
Bud worked for the veterans administration in Milwaukee as an adjudicator from 1957 to 1987. He and his wife moved to Ashland in 1989. Bud was always an all-around good and helpful person to his family and his neighbors. He is a member of First English Lutheran Church in Ashland.
He is survived by his wife, Alice, of Ashland; a sister, Ramona Branzell of Washburn; a special cousin, Raymond Nelson of Ashland; and nieces, nephews and cousins.
He was preceded in death by his parents; a son, Dean Wesling; a brother, Roy Wesling; and two sisters; Ruby Wesling and Rachel Strom.
1940 US Census Kelly, Bayfield, Wisconsin (this is near Ashland) Oscar Wesling 68 Ellen Wesling 60 Ralph Wesling 17 born about 1923 in Wisconsin
1940 US Census Ashland, Ashland, Wisconsin Address: 404 6th Avenue East John P Jensen 58, born about 1882 in Norway, carpenter Delia Jensen 48, wife, born about 1892 in Michigan Alice L Jensen 15, daughter, born about 1925 in Wisconsin