Did you ever figure this out, Sheena? I saw another post on the internet by someone else about this family, in my notes I don't see who!
Therefore I'll post some information and hope the two of you connect.
1900 Cherokee Nation, District 14, Oklahoma Territory (northeast section - OK became a state in 1907) James B. Stevenson b October 1853 in Georgia Ira or Ora b May ? In Alabama. Married 19 years. Bertie Stevenson, 18, born January 1882 <------------ Bessie 13 Pearl 12 Lillian 9 Ossie 8 (male) born in Indian Territory Gussie 6 Cleo 3 born June 1896 OK (m. Lynn Wagner; died 1954 in Oklahoma City) Frank 1 born 1899 OK
Bertie Sevenson could likely be Donald Keith McConnell’s mother. Bertie divorced Mr. McConnell, married Doc Howard B. McCarty (“Mac”) born about 1883.
Howard B. McCarty registered for the draft, World War I, in Big Horn County, Wyoming.
1920 Big Horn County, Wyoming Howard Mccarty 37 Bertie Mccarty 38
1930 Big Horn, Wyoming Howard B. McCarty, born about 1883 Bertie M. McCarty, 48, born about 1882
1940 Odessa, Big Horn, Wyoming Bertie M. McCarty 58, born about 1882 in Iowa H. B. McCarty 27 [should say 57] Residence in 1935: same house
1930 Oklahoma City, Oklahoma Lynn Wagner 35 b OK Cleo Wagner 33 b KY <---------Cleo can be Bertie’s sister *** Lynn and Cleo “lived in Mustang, Oklahoma”
Bertie (Grace) Stevenson married (No Name Known) McConnell CHILDREN: Donald Keith McConnell date of birth???? Charlie McConnell William (Bill) McConnell Lloyd McConnell
Bertie Stevenson McConnell next married Dr. Howard B. McCarty Lived on an Indian Reservation in Wyoming. CHILDREN TOOK McCARTY NAME. Their son Donald Keith McConnell - attended military school; in Ft. Bening GA 1946 Donald Keith McConnell married Deloris Birtha Muir (Deloris was “from Wheatland, Oklahoma,” which is in Oklahoma County, OK)
(Did Deloris Birtha Muir grow up with a relative’s family? Is this her, in 1940 census below? You don't mention a date of birth for her. Her father should be Edward, per a post by you on Genforum)
1940 Mustang, Oklahoma County, Oklahoma Tom Muir 45 b about 1895 in Oklahoma Maggie Muir 43 Juanita Muir 14 daughter Mary M Muir 12 Delores Muir 10 born about 1930 in Oklahoma
Posted on Genforum in 2000, Oklahoma County, OK forum, information about Sheena’s great-grandfather: Edward Lewis Long Muir born 23 August 1900 in Oklahoma; died 1981 in Wheatland, OK FATHER Edw. Lewis Long Muir MOTHER Malinda Lola O’Bryan Edward had 2 SISTERS - Beatrice born 1897, Nellie b 1905 SPOUSE Josephine Brandt Married 1923 in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma CHILDREN Juanita Mary Margaret Deloris Birtha <---this is the Deloris Birtha Muir who married Donald Keith McConnell
Donald Keith McConnell and Deloris Birtha Muir THEIR SON (no name) is Sheena’s father
1910 CENSUS Pittsburg, Oklahoma Ed Muir 40 Lola Muir 30 Beatrice Muir 13 Albert Muir 11 - died in Fresno, California Eddie Muir 10<--------Sheena’s great-grandfather Nellie Muir 5
(Lola divorced Ed and remarried about 5 times; owned hotel in Heartshorn, OK- O‘Brian/Nolan)
In 1900 they are in Choctaw Nation, Indian Territory. See Hatfield-Ryan member tree, Ancestry.com
That's it - that's all I have. I don't see the answer to your question anywhere. :C
Hope you got it somehow in the years since you posted, or that this post now helps you connect.