Actually, the James I'm looking for is thought to be the son of Joseph Abbott b. 1843 to Nathan and Mary Carnes Cooper Abbott who married in 1841. I found a Joseph Abbott who married a Hulda Ann Graham in 1864 and Hulda married again (J. P. McCloud) in 1870. But there is no info on this Joseph (death or divorce) or any children that may have come of the marriage. The time is right though.