Saw your query. I feel this is the family you are looking for. Your dates do not come close to the dates I have. But the names match. Are you part of this family? I do not have a father for Richard at this time. They were in Clay Co., Ky. Some of my Allens married into theirfamily.
Descendants of Richard Abner
Richard Abner, b. 1817 and d ?; m: 01 July 1837 in Clay Co., Ky to Lucinda Wells, b 1820 and d. ?
2Elizabeth Abner, b. 1838 and d.?; m: 26 August 1858 in Clay Co., Ky to Elisha Robinson, b 1837 and d.? 3Louizie Robinson, b. 1859 3Susan Robinson, b. 1861 3Nancy Robinson, b. 1863 3Sylpha Robinson, b. 1867
2Susan Abner, b. 1840
2Emily Abner, b. 1842
2Julia Abner, b. 1847
2Menam Abner, b. 1851
2James Abner, b. April 1852 in Clay Co., Ky
2Elisha Abner, b. 21 April 1855 in Clay Co., Ky
2Charles M. Abner, b: 02 August 1857 in Clay Co., Ky