Stephen Lapham married Lydia Thompson 18 Feb 1856 in Kane County, Illinois. The 1860 census shows a blended family of Laphams and Thompsons. I believe this Lydia [--?--] Thompson Lapham was my second great grandfather's last wife and I'm trying to connect everything. She married Sanford Ackerman 31 Mar 1872 in Boone County, Iowa. Does anyone know anything about her?