I recently received the following information.It still needs checking but I thought I would list it.
1861 Cencus for Gravesend -Eden Place. Thomas 39 Grocer b.Gillingham, abt 1822 Sarah 31 wife b.Chatham, abt 1830 Thomas 9 son b.Sheerness Walter 2 son b.Middle St Clements? ELLEN 3m Dau b.Gravesend
Also these baptisms at St George, Gravesend. Children of Thomas and Sarah Ann Arthur Fredrick 4.8.1872 Ernest William 4.8.1872 Edith Sarah 18.2.1866 ELLEN 17.2.1861 Frank Warner 25.10.63 Walter James 25.10.63