Your posting just came to my attention.You probably have had your questions answered by now.But, if not, better late than never . . .
All the answers to your questions are to be found in The History of Ancient Wethersfield Connecticut, Volume II, Genealogies & Biographies, by Sherman W. Adams & Henry R. Stiles, Picton Press, Camden, Maine, Third Printing, 1996.
If you still need the information, I have a copy of the book and will be glad to help you.