UPDATE- according to the 1900 Phelps Co., Missouri census, Henry M. and Sophia had been married 13 yrs. (at the time of the census) meaning that they were married in 1886-1887. Their first two children are listed with them as living in Meramec Township.They are Lulu-daughter-b.Sept. 1889, General Lee-son-b.Sept. 1894, making them 10 yrs. and 5 yrs. old respectively.