I am working on this family, too. It has not been easy to find information. I am descended from G.B. (Green Bury) who was listed as 1 in the 1860 census. G.B. had tons (maybe as many as 7 or 8) wives, and I am still trying to sort out the wives and children.
I think that Henry's wife is Martha Evaline (Hill).
I am still filling in the same blanks that you are, but I would be glad to share what I have.