Hi Bill, I'm an Aikins descendant, Ichabod was my 3gr grandfather. His father, Israel was married to Eliza Sophia Oliver, "sophie".that's where the confusion about the dual marriage comes in. The only other Ichabod my grandpa knew about was Josiah Ichabod, his grandfather. to simplify it: my great grandmother was Mable Aikins, (tiny little lady, had three boys.) her father Josiah Ichabod, his father = Ichabod, his father = Israel and I don't have to tell you the rest, you've been my source for most everyone else.
But also, my grandpa had Ichabod born on April 12, 1828 in Fayette Co., IL. I have a bunch of copies of his civil war records and stuff I got from my grandpa. Another tidbit, Ichabod was a gunsmith, he built guns until after the war, he built his last one for Josiah, a double barrel black powder rifle, which my grandpa has now.