I only have one thing to say & I hope everyone reads this message. It is very unwise to post your mother's maiden name on the internet. Social Security & others use this name to identify you when you call them on the phone. You run the risk of having your identity stolen & other problems. I know- I made that mistake when I first went online looking for lost siblings.
Also, never ever upload gedcoms etc. with those that are still living. Thanks for hearing me out. Pris