I am going to throw a monkey wrench in the middle of this. I have Benjamin Valentine Alexander in my line. I have found a record of Benjamine AlexandermarringEliza Bodine on Jan 25 1880 at her place of residence.Bond was by Benjamine and His father Austin they were married by T A Street Probate Judge.Marshall Co., AL I have struggled with thisEither there were two Harriett's or Harriett was married before . I found the name Hyde connected to Alexander .One of the sons of Benjamine was named David Cobb Alexander so that really makes scrambled eggs. I am 1st cousin 4times removed to Benjamin V Alexander A lot of these Alexanders went to Texas and mostly around Denton Co.,TX I have a good piece of information on the Alexanders.and even a few pictures.