Saw your message on the Genealogy message board re: ALCINDA ALEXANDER--I am researching her also....and we have corresponded before about the family.
Could you give me the statistics on Sarah Catherine Alexander, your great grandmother, she also married GEORGE WILLIAM KELLEY in October 30, 1909in Loudoun County--and I am related to this KELLEY also.
I found JANE LYDIA BOGGESS ALEXANDER, wife of JAMES FRANKLIN ALEXANDER, buried at Collier Cemetery, Upperville, Virginia on the Loudoun County Cemetery database and thought you would like to have that info for your family tree research.
Thanks for your help--I hope to hear from you soon!!!