Hello Gil! After all this time Haywood is still a mystery. I have made contact with another of Haywood's descendents, thru granddau Henrietta "Hetty" who married A. J. Jester. I will send her your way.
I think I'm going to thro another wrench in the works. Look over some of Harold Alford's work, (grandson of Burgess Stanford Alford and Tabitha Jester) I think a daughter or sister of Haywood may have been a wife to William or Willmer Teague who is in 1850 Union Co AR. I'm not sure if this makes me an Alford yet, but at least makes me a cousin for the 3rd time.