checking at www.worldconnect.rootsweb.com "advanced search" type in Henrietta Stanton - on the right under "spouse" type in Cram
various entries will come up -
click on them and read the info ....
I found that James Alva Stanton, Sr. b. 28 Mar 1822 Crown Point, Essex County, NY had father: Elisha Stanton b. 1782 Hartland, Windsor Co,VT Elisha's father was James Stanton, Sr. b. 1744/45 Stonington, New London Co, CT
Seems a lot of folks went from Ct to VT and then down to NY My Allen family went from CT to Vt and then WI - but some in the same family went to NY - all in search of land -
Hope this helps ..
This is not my family, but I find that cross-references on www.worldconnect.rootsweb.comyield a lot of information most of the time.