According to the book, "Families of Ancient New Haven," Abigail Alling, dau. of John Alling and Susannah Coe (b. 1653) was b. 23 Nov. 1673 (New Haven Vital Records), d. 8 March 1738/9 (New Haven Vital Records), and married 3 Aug 1699, JOHN PUNDERSON (New Haven Vital Records).John Punderson and Abigail Allings's daughter HANNAH (b. 1704) m. David Austin.There is a John Ross listed in this book, but only gives a birth date and no further information.His father's name was George Ross.
I show Stephen Alling (son of Jonathan & Susanna (Coe) Alling) b. 4 Mar 1689 New Haven, bp Mar 1690 (1st Congregational Society of New Haven) died in 1717; m. 27 Oct 1715 (New Haven Vital Records), Mary Trowbrdige b. 9 Apr 1691 New HAven; dau. of Thomas and Mary (Winston) Trowbridge; Mary m. #2 Miles Merwin of Milford.They had one child named Stephen (Changed from Charles) (New Haven Vital records) b. 16 Dec 1716, bp Sep 1720 (Ist Congregational Society New Haven, d. 15 aug. 1772 (buried Grove Street Cemetery, New Haven); Capt., m. #1) 11 Oct 1744 (New Haven Vital Records) Mary Whiting, b. 5 Feb 1714 New HAven, d. 30 Apr 1748 (buried Grove Street Cemetery, New Haven) dau. of Joseph and Hannah (Trowbridge) Whiting, m#2) 22 Oct 1751 (New HAven Vital Records) Sarah Andrew b. 27 Mar 1726 (Milford Vital Records), dau. of Samuel and Eunice (Hall) Andrew.Stephen had two children by second wife: Child # 1, Stephen b. 19 Aug 1752 (New HAven Vital Reords, bp 23 Aug 1752 (1st Cong. Society, New Haven), d. 30 Apr 1828 (buried in Grove Street Cemetery) m. 2 Feb 1782 (Second Cong. Society of New Haven) Lydia Thompson b. c. 1758, d 6 Dec 1831 New Haven, dau. of Joseph and Lydia (Gilbert) Thompson (There is more information on Stephen & Lydia's Children, if interested, please contact me).Child #2 Sarah b. 24 June 1755 (New Haven Vital Records), d. 27 Sep 1794 New Haven m. Jonathan Sabin.