Sometimes the data can be absolutely confusing, can't it. This one appears to be tough. I do show a Robert Applewhite with 12 children. Unfortunately, I do not show any spouses for any of the three. If you search out the Humphrey Hurst line who married the grand daughter of a Robert Applewhite (1771 to 1839-NC)(I have 6 Robert Applewhites) you will eventually find Humphrey's great grand daughter married a Holland in Georgia. Maybe a coincidence or an old family connection. Good luck.