I am not sure if my Jessie Ashman is the same one as yours. But I know Jessie sister of Frederick W. Ashman married a Norton. One other brother was David S. Ashman who married Alice Hotchkiss. (graves are at Stony Creek Cemetery in Stony Creek, CT.) I saw them this last week. Georgianna Cooke was also buried next to David S. Ashman. Not sure of the connection yet but I know she was my ancestor, a Blackfeet Indian Woman.