I wonder if you and David Schachow have gotten your Gilbert Tice Bastedo's straightened out by now?
I just stumbled onto a Canadian website for Princeton Cemetery, Blenheim Twp, that has photographs of Bastedo gravestones.
There is a wonderful photograph of Gilbert T. Bastedo and his wife. The inscription reads: Gilbert Tice Bastedo, born Oct 12, 1800, died Apr 30, 1848. also Anne R., his wife born Feb 24, 1806, died Jun 26, 1867. AND their daus Clarissa J. born Oct 26 1826, died Nov 18, 1848. & Catherine M. born Jan 31, 1840, died Feb 1, 1917.
I don't see who the parents would be for Gilbert T. Bastedo, b. Oct 1800. I take it that there were a couple of Gilbert T. born in 1800?
Yes, it is all confusing, for sure.
Bernice (Turney) Borgia Albany, NY firstname.lastname@example.org