Hello Judith-- I'm pleased my info helped.You ask- "Are we related?" Most Bemis individuals in US can claim descendancy from Joseph Bemis, the immigrant ancestor, b. abt. 1619 in England and imm. abt. 1640 to Watertown, MA, so I'm almost certain of a connection.Since I do not know Julius E.'s parents, the exact connection is not known.
My info is derived mostly from Census records.From them the first wife of Julius is called Mary (1880 Census) and the 2nd wife, your mother, is called Marjorie. (1920 and 1930 Census).This documentation is in my records.