I am looking for the subject Benham who was buried in The Green-Wood Cemetery, Brooklyn, NY, on 3 Feb 1853. He married Adelia A. Hayes on 12 Mar 1847, NY, NY, NY. She was buried in the same cemetery on 14 Jun 1864. They are in the 1850 U.S. VA, Norfolk, Portsmouth census. He was born about 1812, Ohio. She was born about 1816, New York.